To be fair in an argument with your partner

1) Avoid speaking at the same time. It
can lead to confusion.

2) Don't blame, accuse your partner
this will put them on the defensive.

3) Communicate each other's positive
qualities

4) Avoid being judgmental

5) Don't try to communicate when a
person is in a bad mood

6) Don't expect your partner to guess
what you want. Say it yourself

7) Don't save up issues and spring
them on your partner when he or she
raises an issue with you

8) When you raise an issue, stay
focused on that issue until it is
resolved.
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To be taken note of..

Taken from my friendster.